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Here are some brutal truths about consenting to a casual union when that isn’t what you’re looking for: Why waste your energy on tolerating a setup that’s less than what you truly desire? If you keep doing what you’re doing you’ll keep getting what you’ve been getting, so make a change and stop blocking your blessings.
When a guy who’s looking for a genuine serious commitment comes along, he’ll see you as tied up with these flings and continue his search for someone who is available.
If they don’t want to stick around because you demand more, you’re better off without them in your life anyway.
You can’t even complain because you didn’t set the proper boundaries to expect otherwise.
If you agree to a casual connection when you want more, there’s no telling what will go on in your relationship.
If he never wanted more and you both agreed to this arrangement upfront, you can’t blame him for acting accordingly and not changing his mind when your feelings get deeper.
It’s okay and better, in the long run, to be alone until what you want presents itself..
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